About
HI, I’M MIRANDA. HERE’S MY STORY | In 2021, during the height of the COVID-19 pandemic, I became a mother to my son. My entry into motherhood was rocky and challenging, despite having familial support and a loving partner. I quickly realized that motherhood is not for the faint of heart. Before having children, mothers had told me that it was “hard” and “exhausting,” but truly experiencing it gave me a profound understanding of the struggles that mothers around the world have lived through for centuries.
Looking back on that dark and confusing early phase of motherhood, I wish I had more support. It took a very long time for me to integrate my new maternal identity, and I longed for someone to “hold my hand” through that process. I wished someone was checking in on me and guiding me through the physical, emotional, and spiritual changes that I would be experiencing. Many parts of me emerged that were new and shocking, like mom rage and debilitating guilt. After an encounter with mom rage when my son was about four months old, I felt totally out of control and knew I needed help.
That's when I sought therapy, specifically Internal Family Systems Therapy, to help me navigate my new identity and parts. It was a transformative experience. I developed a new relationship with myself, began to grow into my role as a mother, and tuned into my Self and my needs more and more. I started to experience more joy, fun, and acceptance within my family and within myself. I was no longer stuck and could move forward. I shed an old skin and made space for my new one, which I truly enjoy today. With each new phase my child reached and all the changes it brought, I felt a need to shed an old skin and create a new one. I began to view motherhood as an opportunity to understand my whole Self and all of my parts, aspects I might never have confronted if I hadn't chosen this path. Motherhood became a spiritual journey for me, a way to dig deeper and live a more soulful life. That was truly exciting.
Witnessing this transformation within myself was a key catalyst for creating MotherWise. I feel deeply passionate about supporting mothers through the massive transitions and identity shifts that are inevitable in motherhood and getting to know the different parts that emerge during the process. I want to provide the support to mothers that I wish I had during the early, dark, and solitary moments of my motherhood journey.
CREDENTIALS AND BACKGROUND | Now that you’ve heard my story, let me share a bit about my credentials and background. I am a bilingual (Spanish/English) practitioner with a decade of experience as a clinical psychotherapist. I obtained my Master’s Degree in Counseling Psychology from John F. Kennedy University.
One of my specialties is trauma therapy. I have extensive experience working with individuals who have faced abuse and trauma. I especially love working with mothers who are interested in processing their trauma so that they can break inter-generational cycles and not pass their “stuff” onto their kids.
I hold a certification as a Trauma-Informed Sex Positive Therapist, meaning I am very comfortable talking about and processing issues around sexuality and intimacy. I am trained in Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR). I have done many trainings in Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and am considered IFS-Informed – this type of therapy is near and dear to my heart and one of my favorite ways to work with mothers.
Motherhood has been one of the most profound experiences of my life, revealing parts of myself I never knew existed. As a mother and a therapist, I understand the emotional upheavals, the heart-opening joys, and the deep struggles that come with this journey. My personal and professional experiences have fueled my passion for helping other mothers navigate these transitions.
Through MotherWise, I aim to create a supportive community where mothers can find the resources, guidance, and encouragement they need to thrive. Whether you are struggling with the emotional challenges of new motherhood or seeking a deeper connection with your evolving identity, I am here to help you every step of the way.