Hi, I’m Miranda.
I am an LMFT and a mother of two littles. I am deeply passionate about empowering fellow mamas to thrive and discover deeper meaning in their motherhood experience.
After becoming a mother myself, I quickly realized one thing: mothers deserve better. This is why I created MotherWise, a platform designed to support mothers like you through psychotherapy, online courses, podcast episodes, and other resources.
Let's embark on this transformative journey together, turning the challenges of motherhood into opportunities for growth and Self-discovery. You don't have to navigate this path alone—I'm here to support you every step of the way.
Mental health support for pregnancy, relationships, postpartum, parenting, trauma, grief, loss, and more.
I want to help you go from surviving to thriving in motherhood.
I specialize in:
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Motherhood is a profound journey that can significantly shift your sense of identity. As you navigate the new responsibilities and emotional landscape of being a mother, you may find yourself questioning who you are beyond the role of a caregiver. This transformation can be both exhilarating and overwhelming, as it often brings to light aspects of yourself that you never knew existed. I'm here to support you through this identity shift, helping you integrate your new role with your personal aspirations and sense of self. Together, we'll explore your evolving identity, address any challenges, and empower you to embrace this new chapter with confidence and clarity. Let's work together to ensure that your journey into motherhood is also a journey of personal growth and self-discovery.
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Postpartum rage is a powerful and often misunderstood emotion that many new mothers experience. It can feel overwhelming and isolating, especially in a society that tends to shun expressions of anger, particularly from women. I am deeply passionate about working with postpartum rage because I believe it is a valid and important emotion that deserves to be acknowledged and understood. Using parts work based in Internal Family Systems (IFS), I help mothers explore and work with this part of themselves. IFS allows us to identify and understand the different parts of our psyche, including the part that holds rage. By giving this part a voice and understanding its origins, we can transform and integrate it in a healthy way. My goal is to help you navigate these intense feelings, find balance, and reclaim your sense of peace and empowerment. You don't have to face this alone—I'm here to support you every step of the way.
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Whether you start feeling down, overwhelmed, or hopeless right after birth or months later, postpartum depression can sneak up on you. Maybe you're finding yourself more irritable or struggling to get out of bed. Perhaps connecting with your baby feels harder than you expected, and you're worried about being a good mom. No matter when these feelings arise, reaching out for support can make a world of difference. Parenthood can feel isolating, but you don't have to navigate it alone. I'm here to help you manage these tough emotions, strengthen your bond with your baby, and equip you with the tools to improve your mental well-being.
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While postpartum depression often gets the spotlight, postpartum anxiety is actually more common than you might think. And it's no wonder—raising a child brings a whirlwind of worries and fears. From breastfeeding challenges to sleep issues, many moms feel lost and overwhelmed, triggering intense anxiety. With so much conflicting advice out there, trusting your instincts and feeling confident in your decisions can seem impossible.
But you don't have to navigate this alone. I'm here to help you find your footing and manage your anxiety, so you can stop the endless spiraling and late-night Googling and learn to tune into yourself. Together, we'll work on building your confidence as a mother, helping you feel more settled, present, and engaged with your baby. Let's turn those anxious moments into opportunities for growth and connection.
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Motherhood often puts strain on your relationships, as so much of your time and energy is dedicated to your child(ren), leaving little for your partner or even yourself. I support mothers in navigating and strengthening these vital relationships, whether it's with their partners, children, or their Selves. Through individualized therapy (using IFS) and practical guidance, I help you address communication challenges, resolve conflicts, and build deeper connections. My goal is to empower you to create harmonious and fulfilling relationships that enrich your motherhood journey and overall well-being.
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Guilt and shame are pervasive and often debilitating emotions that many people experience, and they can be especially intense for mothers. Mom guilt and shame can arise from a multitude of sources—whether it's feeling like you're not spending enough time with your children, questioning your parenting decisions, or struggling to balance work and family life. I am deeply passionate about working with these emotions because, while common, they are often shrouded in silence and stigma. Using parts work based in Internal Family Systems (IFS), I help mothers explore and understand the parts of themselves that hold guilt and shame. IFS allows us to identify and compassionately engage with these parts, uncovering their roots and transforming their impact on your life. My goal is to help you navigate these feelings, release the burden of guilt and shame, and embrace a more balanced and self-compassionate approach to motherhood. You don't have to carry this weight alone—I'm here to support you in finding peace and self-acceptance.n
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Becoming a mother can sometimes bring unresolved issues from our own childhood to the surface, especially if our upbringing was less than ideal. It's common for new moms to worry about how their past experiences might affect their sense of self and overall well-being. You might find yourself questioning whether your choices are truly your own or if they're influenced by old patterns and relationships. I'm here to help you untangle these complex emotions and foster a nurturing, healthy relationship with yourself. Together, we'll explore your past, heal old wounds, and support your journey toward personal growth and self-discovery, all while embracing your identity as a mother and improving your relationship with your child(ren).
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Grief is a complex and multifaceted emotion that many mothers experience, often in ways that are deeply personal and unique. Whether it's grieving the loss of the archetypal maiden self as you transition into motherhood, mourning the loss of a parent, or coping with the heartbreak of a miscarriage, grief can manifest in many forms. Mothers might also experience grief over unmet expectations, changes in their relationships, or the loss of personal freedom and identity. I understand that these feelings of grief can be overwhelming and isolating. My approach is to provide a compassionate and supportive space where you can explore and process these emotions. Together, we can navigate the layers of grief, honor your losses, and find a path toward healing and acceptance. You don't have to face this journey alone—I'm here to support you every step of the way.
"Miranda embodies warmth, competence, and compassionate skill in her work as a therapist. She brings a strong therapeutic presence, is a natural leader, and creates a safe and trusting space for therapy to unfold."
Collette Virostko, LMFT
What People are Saying
"I have known Miranda in a professional capacity for the last decade, working at various agencies and organizations with her. Since I consult with Miranda, I am able to honestly say that I trust her clinical judgement and her dedication to her clients. Miranda deeply considers what approach might be most helpful for each of the folks she works with."
Ellen Garfield, LMFT
Get in Touch!
Schedule a free fifteen-minute 1:1 session with me to chat about your needs and questions
Services
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Individual Psychotherapy
I offer individual therapy for both new and seasoned mothers, utilizing Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) to help you navigate the complexities of motherhood. My approach is designed to support you in healing from past traumas, managing current stressors, and fostering deeper connections with your children, partners, and most importantly, your Self. Together, we will work to transform your emotional landscape, allowing you to thrive and find greater peace and fulfillment in your motherhood journey. My goal is to empower you to embrace your evolving identity with confidence and compassion.
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Courses & Offerings
I am currently working on a range of courses and offerings tailored to where you are in your motherhood journey. From courses on rage and identity, to advanced courses that help you get to know yourself better through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS), there's something for everyone. Additionally, I am writing a workbook that will help moms connect with their evolving Selves throughout their motherhood journey. This workbook aims to guide you through the process of the internal shifts that are required of you through each phase. Each course and offering is crafted to empower you, foster personal growth, and enhance your overall well-being as a mother.
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Podcast
I am in the process of developing a podcast! We will delve into the various parts of ourselves that emerge when motherhood begins. Each episode will explore the complex emotional landscape of being a mom, from the joys and challenges to the unexpected feelings that arise. Through insightful discussions and expert interviews, we uncover how different parts of our identity—such as perfectionism, rage, and guilt—show up when you become a mom. Whether you're a new mom or a seasoned parent, this podcast offers valuable perspectives and practical advice to help you navigate your motherhood journey with greater self-awareness and compassion.
FAQ
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At MotherWise, we’re dedicated to supporting mothers through every stage of their journey with a rich array of resources, including psychotherapy, online courses, podcasts, and more. Our platform is designed to help you navigate the complexities of motherhood, manage stress and anxiety, and deepen your understanding of your maternal identity.
We understand that therapy can be a significant investment, which is why we provide a variety of resources that you can explore at your own pace. While our courses and podcasts are not a replacement for professional psychotherapy, they offer valuable insights and support to complement your journey.
Whether you're seeking practical tools for daily challenges or looking to explore your identity as a mother, MotherWise is here to empower you with accessible and supportive resources.
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MotherWise is designed for mothers at all stages of their journey, whether you are expecting, a new mom, or navigating the complexities of raising older children. Our resources are tailored to support you through various challenges, including emotional well-being, self-care, and personal growth.
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If you’re unsure where to start, we recommend scheduling a free fifteen-minute consultation. We can help you identify your needs and guide you towards the most appropriate resources and support.